It’s going to be a lonely party season

Nov 2 2012 by Cheryl McEvoy, Ayrshire Post

QWhy am I still single when all my friends seem to be in very successful and secure relationships? Party season is coming around again and as usual I will be the odd one out. I feel really awful going places on my own, particularly at this time of year.

A We don`t just want a partner we want a soul mate, a friend, a person whom we can listen, learn and develop our life and relationship with.

Now you don’t find them lying about for 10 a penny.

If you don`t tell anyone, I’ll tell you how to go about it finding yours.

Yes, I know, you want to find them now.

So here goes.

Now remember it’s our secret, don`t tell anyone.

Drop all the barriers you have put up for a long time because you fear that something might go wrong.

I know that you worry about what went wrong in previous relationships and that it might happen all over again.

But you are building such a great big wall around you that you will soon not be able to climb over it.

Leave the past behind and concentrate on today.

Never mind those old relationships.

Dump them and you will feel a lot lighter, more relaxed, cheerier and have a great big smile on your face.

In all of the years that I have studied the most important thing that I have learned that there is nothing more attractive to the opposite sex than someone who looks happy.

If your face is tripping you and you look all weighed down with the world on your shoulders then people with steer away from you.

Take my advice and you never know what will happen.

Good luck.